When this subject came to my attention, I thought my title
would be, “Thoughts of living in uncertain times.’ I am aware that it’s not
just my city or country that is dealing with uncertainty. Most of the world
is facing uncertain employment and falling economy. Banks are closing and
many cities, states, and even countries are going into bankruptcy. Events in
one part of the world effect many other countries, some more than others.
Although this type of thing is usually cyclical, it doesn’t often involve as
great an area as this time.
What plan are you going to use to get through this uncertain time? We have
several ways to deal with whatever happens. We can decide the big picture is
too complicated or scary to understand and hope somebody else figures it all
out for us. We can decide to face reality where we are and work on our
situation, one day at a time. Or we have the old stand-by of sticking our
heads in the sand and denying that the problem exists.
Personally, I believe the best choice is always to face reality with a plan
to improve something. Let me be clear, I do not have the answers - for me or
for anyone else. Nor do I believe that the same plan will work for everyone.
One size does not fit all. With that in mind, I hope to give ideas here that
will get you to think about what you might do to find your own answers.
Anytime our personal world becomes uncertain or starts to rattle, we have a
tendency to grab whatever seems solid or correct and hold on to those
beliefs and behaviors with almost a death grip. Human nature resists change,
especially that forced upon us. We want the complexities of life to be
simplified and to stay the way we want them. Many times this works for a
while. When we insist upon an absolute way of seeing things these beliefs
become stronger in our thoughts. This seems preferable to examining the
growing tension of opposing forces and conflicting opinions.
However, problems arise when we view the world with fixed ideas and rigid
dogmas. Some are positive and some are negative. Both leave no room for new
insights and creative solutions to situations we face. I invite you to take
time to answer this question for yourself.